Dating in whatever form presents both the excitement and emotional feelings of human nature.When I started online dating, it was more of emotional feeling rather than the excitement which later cropped in.
Before getting involved in the online dating.I had a specific purpose among which was the very long absence of my spouse from the Country and my intention not to engage in any emotional or physical involvement with another woman with its possible attendant consequences while my wife was away.There was no doubt to the fact that I knew that I was abou to enter another phase in my life.
I knew that I must exhibit a very high degree of responsibity and by every possible means I must be very cautious and careful. Conscious of the type of activity I was getting involved in. Since I was going to get involved with unknown individuals, I had to be very conscious of the
various possible risks involved. I would need to appreciate the facts that there were real risks involved.
We could all assume that Online Dating may be safe since the persons involved may be living at a distance from each other even in different Countries, the possibity of their eventualiy meeting each other physically may not be ruled out. It is the possibity of such a meeting that portends the danger the risks may pose.
What risks did I envisage and how did I prepare for them?.I was expecting that my date might have had nasty expriences like sextual abuses,unwanted pregnancies, sexualy transmitted diseases(STD) or even AIDS,HIV etc, There was possibity that she might have been feeding me with wrong details about herself. Women are very vulnerable.They are physically weak and may be easily taken advantage of. The objective of Online Dating is NOBLE but there had been cases
wwhere the Noble idea has been abused particularly by men.
What do we say of an adult woman who engages on Online Dating probably out of emotional
frustrations and heartbreak only to end up with the wrong man still believing that he is Mr Right.She may eventualy end up being sexualy abused or scammed and possible financial loss to crown it up.
There are two major aspects to Online Dating.They are both financial and emotional. Scam forms the basis of one of the risks involved on Online Dating while the main point of emotional disturbance may arise from a failed marriage promise. We are right to assume that Dating along with courtship and companionship are very ideal for human nature, however one should be very
cautious and careful.Some aspects may be platform for hidden agenda.
I finaly met my Online date at our Local Airport, She came in the morning for a day visit. I drove her around the city showing her important places eventualy ending up with A FULL GOSPEL MEETING where we had lunch with the other members of the chapter.After the meeting, we had a formal discussion with a promise that I would visit her before the year runs out. I later drove her to the Airport for her journey back home. It was a departure laden with
emotional feelings.
moses zaccheaus - a writer, philatelic and numismatic teacher.
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Tuesday, December 16, 2008
Wednesday, December 3, 2008
How I had my first Successful Date
Perhaps you wish to ask someone out for a date and you are not sure of what to do, I would like to share my experience with you. Please read on..
I met this lady at one of our end of the year parties. Her catering company was mandated to organize the party for and on behalf of my company. Her company did a very good job. The party was a big success. Her performance at the party made me develop an unusual
interest in her.An idea started brewing in my mind to ask her for a date. So when she informed me at the party that she would come in to collect their fees the following Thursday.I postulated this may be the opportunity for me to suggest a date to her.These form the main purpose and reasons for eventually dating her
Before Thursday, her cheque was ready.I made sure of that. When she stepped into my office on the day, I welcomed her with open arms. The moment I have been waiting has finally arrived.I decided to make it as a reality. I knew that I should play safe and not be aggressive.
Even though I was very positive that my date request would be through I was also prepared to take No for an answer.One should be prepared for any answer and appreciate the beauty of grace in such a No answer situation. I was not prepared to put pressure on her to accept my date offer or ask her for her reasons had she said no.I would not hate her for saying no.I would rather go on with my life. It is not the end of the world.
I have practiced my approach. my words and lines were carefully
rehearsed. I was well conditioned as what to tell her.I was very sure that I had important details in mind as where we could go whether for Lunch or Dinner.. I did not want the situation in which she would say 'Yes' and I would Not know where to go. That situation would be a serious 'Turn Off'.
I had ready answers had the lady asked me for the reasons for my asking her out. I was not prepared to be a very huge flatter but I was very much prepared to make her feel good.A very thoughtful idea. My asking her out it must be for a purpose and the lady must not be left in doubt about the purpose.
Over tea and snacks in my office, I put my date proposal to her, she accepted a weekend dinner date with me on Sunday at a very exclusive restaurant down town.We had a sumptuous meal washed down with a well chilled bottle of French wine but I made sure that non of us was drunk being our first date. We also decided o keep our circle of friends out of the show. I was responsible for all the expenses incurred . I was very happy that I DID. It was never a dull moment. It was a night to remember.My first 'date' had been a succesful one.
moses zaccheaus - a writer, philatelic and numismatic teacher.
www.moseszee.com - http://moseszee.blogspot.com
This article may be reprinted FREE OF CHARGE on the condition that the contents of the article and the details in the Resource Box remain INTACT.
You may also wish to read any of these articles....
1.THE SPIRITUAL CURE FOR ANXIETY.
2THE SOURCE OF OUR SUFFICIENCY .
@
http://www.moseszee.com/ezinerichcontentsread.htm
I met this lady at one of our end of the year parties. Her catering company was mandated to organize the party for and on behalf of my company. Her company did a very good job. The party was a big success. Her performance at the party made me develop an unusual
interest in her.An idea started brewing in my mind to ask her for a date. So when she informed me at the party that she would come in to collect their fees the following Thursday.I postulated this may be the opportunity for me to suggest a date to her.These form the main purpose and reasons for eventually dating her
Before Thursday, her cheque was ready.I made sure of that. When she stepped into my office on the day, I welcomed her with open arms. The moment I have been waiting has finally arrived.I decided to make it as a reality. I knew that I should play safe and not be aggressive.
Even though I was very positive that my date request would be through I was also prepared to take No for an answer.One should be prepared for any answer and appreciate the beauty of grace in such a No answer situation. I was not prepared to put pressure on her to accept my date offer or ask her for her reasons had she said no.I would not hate her for saying no.I would rather go on with my life. It is not the end of the world.
I have practiced my approach. my words and lines were carefully
rehearsed. I was well conditioned as what to tell her.I was very sure that I had important details in mind as where we could go whether for Lunch or Dinner.. I did not want the situation in which she would say 'Yes' and I would Not know where to go. That situation would be a serious 'Turn Off'.
I had ready answers had the lady asked me for the reasons for my asking her out. I was not prepared to be a very huge flatter but I was very much prepared to make her feel good.A very thoughtful idea. My asking her out it must be for a purpose and the lady must not be left in doubt about the purpose.
Over tea and snacks in my office, I put my date proposal to her, she accepted a weekend dinner date with me on Sunday at a very exclusive restaurant down town.We had a sumptuous meal washed down with a well chilled bottle of French wine but I made sure that non of us was drunk being our first date. We also decided o keep our circle of friends out of the show. I was responsible for all the expenses incurred . I was very happy that I DID. It was never a dull moment. It was a night to remember.My first 'date' had been a succesful one.
moses zaccheaus - a writer, philatelic and numismatic teacher.
www.moseszee.com - http://moseszee.blogspot.com
This article may be reprinted FREE OF CHARGE on the condition that the contents of the article and the details in the Resource Box remain INTACT.
You may also wish to read any of these articles....
1.THE SPIRITUAL CURE FOR ANXIETY.
2THE SOURCE OF OUR SUFFICIENCY .
@
http://www.moseszee.com/ezinerichcontentsread.htm
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