This piece is not written to judge the morality or otherwise of dating a colleague in the same office even if she had been a married lady or not. I met this lady. We developed interest in each other. I wanted to appreciate her further. I decided to give her a date.
Before inviting her for a date, I have set for myself some guiding principles. I should know why I have decided to invite her for a date. When my purpose was clearly defined, I should be able express myself without any ambeguity but in a comfortable disposition.
If she had said No to my invitation, I was not to be embittered in any way. She would still continue to enjoy the respect,mutual cordiality and decorum that we had for each other.
I made up my mind that under no circumstances would I use alcohol to boost my confidence in talking to her. This might be counter productive. I would not want to present myself as a man who lacked confidence in himself or a possible drunk who might eventually turned out as a violent man. A man not worth to be in company with.
I was never going to ask her for a date when she was in the mist of her friends or colleagues. If I did, I might put her on the spot and she might probably become embarrased and rather confused. Discretion should always be better than valor.
I had the most of the details of the date in mind. I would not want to put myself in a position of being unable to respond properly or answer whenever she asked me why I was asking her out. I would not want to be a flatterer but make sure I made her good. That would surely show her how thoughtful I was.
I was not ready to put pressure on her to go out with me.
When the time came and my strategy quite in place, I approached her discreetly for a date.She accepted beaming with a smile as if she had been expecting it. The date was a complete success.We had a very good time.
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Before inviting her for a date, I have set for myself some guiding principles. I should know why I have decided to invite her for a date. When my purpose was clearly defined, I should be able express myself without any ambeguity but in a comfortable disposition.
If she had said No to my invitation, I was not to be embittered in any way. She would still continue to enjoy the respect,mutual cordiality and decorum that we had for each other.
I made up my mind that under no circumstances would I use alcohol to boost my confidence in talking to her. This might be counter productive. I would not want to present myself as a man who lacked confidence in himself or a possible drunk who might eventually turned out as a violent man. A man not worth to be in company with.
I was never going to ask her for a date when she was in the mist of her friends or colleagues. If I did, I might put her on the spot and she might probably become embarrased and rather confused. Discretion should always be better than valor.
I had the most of the details of the date in mind. I would not want to put myself in a position of being unable to respond properly or answer whenever she asked me why I was asking her out. I would not want to be a flatterer but make sure I made her good. That would surely show her how thoughtful I was.
I was not ready to put pressure on her to go out with me.
When the time came and my strategy quite in place, I approached her discreetly for a date.She accepted beaming with a smile as if she had been expecting it. The date was a complete success.We had a very good time.
moses zaccheaus - a writer, author, publisher, philatelic, numismatic teacher and internet marketer. The author of .
(1)‘Beginner’s Guide To A Profitable Stamp Business.
(2).Thought Provoking But Very Inspiring Digital book Titled ‘201 Quotes’
(3).'21 Simple But Very Effective Ways Of Getting Free Traffic To Your Website' .
http://moseszee.blogspot.com
http://moseszee.webs.com/apps/webstore
This article may be reprinted FREE OF CHARGE on the condition that the contents of the article and the details in the Resource Box remain INTACT.
(2).Thought Provoking But Very Inspiring Digital book Titled ‘201 Quotes’ - Valued 10 us$ - Comes With Bonuses.
